Open Question: Guy at the gym keeps looking at me but he never says anything, is he interested or what?
I go to the gym 6 days a week. I go to the gym at the city pool(all the major public pools in each city have a big gym) and I go on weekends from 9-10:30pm. Every night on weekends I’ve seen this real attractive cute guy who works out but doesn’t talk to anyone and just lifts weights the whole time without breaks and he’s really really muscular. I’m 18, and he’s between 17-23 and looks like he’s been training for at least 4 or 5 years. I just catch him very often glancing over at me and I sort of smile but he never bothers smiling he just looks away right when I make eye contact with him and continues working out.I also notice he never looks at any other women at the gym. Every work out I do 15minutes of abs on the mat, he does as well. I notice what time he does it, so I try to do it at the same time to get conversation but its like he’ll wait until I’m done before he does it. He has his music blasting so I can’t really go up and talk to him either.
After every work out I go into the pool and into the hottub for about 10 minutes before closing. He always does too. Last night when we both finished he was in the hottub already so I went and sat beside him and waited to see if he would say anything. Couple minutes later he didn’t and just pretended i wasn’t even there, so I said hey, how was your workout? and he replied “good”, got out immediately and left.
How can I get more out of this guy? I don’t find him creepy at all, I just find it somewhat strange but intriguing. He’s a clean looking guy, obviously would rather spend his weekends working out than drinking and doing drugs, same as me. I think we might have a lot in common. We’re both in excellent shape, and I do consider myself being physically attractive(I take excellent care of myself as well). Any advice on to how I can talk to him more? thanks!