I am 21 years old and I like a girl who is 27 years old. She works at the local pub, I only play pool in there, I do not drink. I have known her for almost 4 years. Around about 3 years ago she had a boyfriend, yet she seemed really friendly with me. One night she slapped my behind when her boyfriend was in front of me, he couldn’t see it, although she had been drinking that night. Another time she was working and she was saying that she was going out that night, she had asked me if I wanted to go with her and her friend, she gave me her number and asked me to text her later on. I ended up not going because I had been working the door that night and it was too late. Another time I was up the town and she had asked me to go down to ‘Life’, a club lol, to see her so I did, but I never sat with her and her mate long.
I was out a couple of years ago and so was she, it was a Sunday night and her birthday, my birthday was on the Monday
how weird is that? Haha! Anyway, she was now single and in ‘Life’, again, she was feeling my leg at one point, me being me had no clue how to react to this, I thought ‘well she is really drunk and has probably no idea what she is doing’ so I never done anything, not that I would have know what to do anyway. That night we had left the club and were heading along the street to a pizza shop and she put her arm around mines as we walked along the street. She hugged me as I headed home saying ‘I’m really glad you came out tonight’ or something to that effect.
Last week I text her if she would like to go to the cinema with me to see Toy Story 3, she replied ‘Yea as long as u get sweeties x’ I took that as a geniuine yes and asked her when she wanted to go, no reply. I text her the next day to see how her night was, she had been out, no reply. I went to see her about this at work but it was quite busy at the bar so I never said anything, neither did she on the subject, she just worked away cleaning.
I text her again during the week, no reply, and I sent her a message on FB yesterday and she never got back to me, she has been on since though,
What do you think?
- Do you think she could or does like me?
- Is the age gap too big and she maybe just thinks of me as a cute kid?
- Would the alcohol have had an effect or do you think her feelings were the reasons behind some of her actions?
- I also maybe thought that because I had never reacted to the ‘leg rubbing incident’ that she thought I never liked her?
- Do you think that she would be interested in going out with me or was she just having a laugh? Would she do that?
Thanks for your time and help
Here’s a picture of me, just incase you were curious lol
http://www.flickr.com/photos/45063976@N07/4786827420/
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